Gathering around the dinner table with friends might not have the same tradition as Thanksgiving with family, but Friendsgiving is no less important. It's a celebration of chosen family, a time to share gratitude, laughter, and great food. Planning such an event, however, can be overwhelming. So, we've compiled a list of things not to forget for a perfect Friendsgiving, ensuring it's an event to remember and look forward to the following year.
With that said, let's dive into the nitty-gritty of hosting a memorable Friendsgiving.
Before the Big Day
Preparation is key to a successful Friendsgiving. Let's break down the things to do weeks, days, and hours before the event.
Guest List and Invitations
Guest list is the first thing to decide. Friendsgiving is all about intimacy and good company, so keep it small and cozy. Once you've decided on the guests, send out invitations. Digital invites are convenient and eco-friendly. Sites like Evite, Paperless Post, or even Facebook Events can help you with that.
Don't forget to ask your guests if they have any dietary restrictions or preferences. This will help you plan the menu more inclusively.
Menu Planning
Friendsgiving is a potluck, which makes planning easier and ensures a variety of dishes. Traditionally, the host prepares the turkey, but you can assign other main courses, sides, desserts, and drinks to your guests. Don't hesitate to ask if anyone has a signature dish they'd like to bring.
Remember to include enough vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-free options to cater to different diets. Communicate this openly with your guests so everyone feels included and can enjoy the meal.
The Day Before and of the Event
With the preparations in place, let's focus on the day before and of the event.
Prep Work
The day before, start your cooking if it's a multi-day process. Make sure to delegate tasks to your guests if they've offered to help. This could be setting up the dining area, preparing side dishes, or even picking up ice or other last-minute items.
Don't forget to clean your house. A tidy space helps create a welcoming atmosphere for your guests. Focus on the areas where you'll be spending the most time, such as the living room, kitchen, and dining room.
Set the Mood
Decorations can transform your space into a warm, inviting environment. Use fall-themed ornaments, scented candles, and string lights to create an ambiance. You can also ask your guests to bring some decorations if they're up for it.
Set up a playlist to keep the atmosphere lively and fun. Consider using a music streaming service like Spotify or Apple Music for a wide selection of songs.
During the Event
All the preparations have led to this moment. Here's how to ensure a memorable Friendsgiving.
Welcome Your Guests
Greeter your guests at the door with a warm smile and introduce them around if it's their first time meeting. Encourage socializing by planning some icebreaker activities or games.
Have a designated area for coats, bags, and other personal items. This will prevent clutter and help your guests feel more at ease.
Food and Drinks
Ensure there's enough food for everyone. A good rule of thumb is to plan for about one pound of food per person. Also, consider serving dishes family-style to encourage sharing and conversation.
Don't forget the drinks! Offer a variety of beverages, including non-alcoholic options. Assign a responsible person to monitor the drinks and ensure everyone stays hydrated and safe.
Gratitude and Traditions
Like Thanksgiving, Friendsgiving is a time to express gratitude. You can introduce a gratitude jar where guests share what they're thankful for. Alternatively, you can have each guest say one thing they appreciate about another guest during the meal.
Other traditions can include Dinamo dice games, Charades, or even a Friendsgiving photo booth. Encourage your guests to bring their own traditions as well.
After the Event
Congratulations, you've successfully hosted a Friendsgiving! Here's what's left to do.
Clean Up
Don't leave all the cleaning to the next day. Ask your guests to help with the initial clean-up, such as clearing dishes and wiping down tables. This ensures the task isn't overwhelming the next day.
Have extra boxes or bags ready for any leftovers. Encourage your guests to take home some food, and don't forget to return any borrowed items and kitchenware.
Seeing everyone off and reflecting on the day's joy and laughter, it's easy to feel content. But remember, it's never too early to start planning for next year, or even suggesting a small Friendsgiving get-together before then. After all, at Friendsgiving, every moment is worth cherishing and looking forward to. So, keep your friends close and your Friendsgiving traditions going!"